I am a divorced single mother and my 11-year-old daughter doesn’t want me to date. How can I have some romance in my life without upsetting my little girl? A few of my girlfriends are single parents and I know how much they worry about how their love lives will affect their kids. But I [...]
Going On The First Date After Getting Divorced
I’m about to go out on my first date since my divorce a year and a half ago. I was married for 15 years and I’m terribly nervous. How should I act? What should I say? Could you offer some advice? First, let me tell you to be yourself! Yes, you’ve been out of the [...]
How To Let Him Down Easy
I am going out with a guy who cares for me a lot but I’m afraid that I don’t care as much for him. In fact, the only reason we’re dating is because I feel sorry for him. He’s been very nice to me and I want to let him down gently but I’m not [...]
How To Deal With Dating An Older Man
I’m in love with my boyfriend who is 16 years older than me. We understand the challenges ahead of us but unfortunately, we do not seem to be receiving support from anyone. Should we confront our families and friends about their lack of support or simply ignore them and go on? We are very compatible [...]
Where To Go To Meet Nice Men
I am going to be 31 years old this year and I’m a single mother of a two-year-old son. I don’t get out much and, even if I did, I don’t know where to go. My question is, where, at my age, do you meet decent men who are interested in a loving, long-term relationship [...]
How Can I Trust Him Again After He Lied?
I met a man on the Internet, and when we met face-to-face there was an instant connection. We dated for about seven months, and then I found out he had a wife. He told me that they were separated and had been for a while. I wasn’t sure if I could believe him, so I [...]
Getting Cold Feet After Four Months Of Dating
I met a wonderful woman and had sex on the first date. But now after four months of dating, she’s putting on the brakes. She says she’s getting cold feet. How long should I wait for her to get in touch with her feelings? Your girlfriend is trying to let you down easy. Here’s the [...]
Welcoming Body Language And Flirting
I’m having trouble meeting guys. My uncle said it could be because my “welcome light” isn’t on. What does this mean? The phrase “welcome light” is a new one to me! I assume your uncle is talking about body language. How do you react when you meet new people? Does shyness cause you to look [...]
Dating Two Men At The Same Time
I am a 26 year old single female, who is currently dating two men. I feel like I may be asking for trouble by doing this. What do you think? I am completely honest with both, but I am wondering what kind of problems I may end up with. The problems with juggling two men [...]
My Son Is Dating An Older Woman
My 19-year-old son is dating an older woman. Do you think it’s all right for an 19-year-old male to be having a sexual relationship with a 40-year-old woman? Absolutely NOT! But check back next April, when I turn 40…. Seriously though, there’s nothing wrong with a younger man dating an older woman, although the double [...]